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Steena Hernandez's avatar

What a beautiful realization this was. It’s not really about the rewards at all, but the memories and connection built around reading together. 💕

La Bibliotrek | Read the World's avatar

I loved reading this. This reminded me about some research I read years go about extrinsic and intrinsic motivation. One of the things that stuck with me was the advice that if a child, for example, produces a piece of art, rather than just saying "well done - aren't you clever", that to build intrinsic motivation you should try and fully engage with the piece of art they have produced by asking them questions about it and their choices. The same principle could apply to reading, whereby you fully engage with them about the book they have read, what it was about and ask them questions on what they thought about it. As you say, a lot of it really is just about spending quality time with your child around an activity that you want to encourage them to do. It's such a fascinating subject, and it was just lovely to read about how you are encouraging your daughter to read and creating some lovely family memories around it.

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